Show Notes:

Episode Summary:

In this episode of The Inclusive Dad Podcast, host AAron talks with author and advocate Hugh Flynn, whose memoir Something Special Be captures the journey of seeking conservatorship for his brother with a disability. Hugh shares powerful lessons from growing up in an inherently inclusive family, his views on “playing nice” as the foundation of inclusion, and the complex realities of conservatorship and family conflict. Through humor, honesty, and heart, Hugh reflects on authenticity, resilience, and the deep wisdom learned from his brothers. This episode invites listeners to rethink inclusion as something lived, not legislated.

Key Takeaways:

Play Nice Philosophy – Inclusion begins with how we treat each other in everyday life.

Family as Inclusion Lab – Growing up with siblings with disabilities shaped Hugh’s empathy and worldview.

Legal Lessons Learned – The conservatorship process revealed systemic gaps and family tensions.

Authenticity as Teacher – His brother Aaron modeled honesty and joy without pretense.

Read, Don’t Scroll – Hugh urges listeners to disconnect from negativity and learn through reading.

About the Guest(s):

Hugh Flynn:

Hugh Flynn is a widely-published journalist and award-winning playwright. He has been a life-long advocate for the rights of underserved populations, especially people with disabilities. His searing memoir, SOMETHING SPECIAL BE, is the personal story of a gay man's attempt to become the conservator of his disabled brother, and the battles, betrayal, and shocking surprises he faced.

Hugh's definition of inclusion:

Inclusion means play nice.

Connect with Hugh Flynn:

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hughflynn24

Buy His Book: https://a.co/d/e7AnIbc

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